If you are assigned to an unaccompanied tour or if your family is
staying in another location, make sure the whole family understands the reason
for the temporary separation. Hold a family meeting to discuss any
concerns and answer questions they may have about the
separation. Help the family make a calendar to record your departure
date, return date, birthdays, anniversaries, special days, etc. Take
one copy with you and leave one with your family. Be certain your
spouse is aware of your financial system; bills, checkbook, insurance, lock
boxes, etc. Be sure that your spouse knows where to locate important
documents; insurance papers, titles, wills, tax information, marriage and birth
certificates, etc. It is important to verify that the checking and
savings accounts are in both spouses' names. Your spouse will also
need a power of attorney in your absence. All eligible family members
need to be registered in the DEERS program and have valid ID
cards. Check automobiles to make certain that no repairs or
maintenance is required. Also check to make sure that all
registration and licenses are current and that they are properly registered on
the installation with current stickers.